The traditional white and ivory dress has long been the go-to choice for brides. However, traditions and weddings no longer go hand in hand and for some brides the need to break free from them is real. Any outfits you wear are a form of self-expression and if the big white ballgown isn’t your thing, then you shouldn’t feel like you have to wear one on your wedding day just because ‘that’s what you do’. Choosing to add colour to your wedding day wardrobe should be something that goes without saying… your day, your way and all, and we have the perfect lilac beauty to show just how stunning it can be! Coloured wedding dresses can make a bold statement, reflect your personality, and create a truly memorable wedding experience. If you’re considering breaking away from tradition and opting for a coloured dress, here are seven essential tips to help you choose the perfect one.
The Inspiration
Coordinated and photographed by Chelsea Bux Photography this beautiful coloured wedding dress inspiration set at Bignor Park West Sussex was inspired by floral themes, the subtle pastel colour of the Millia London lilac dress, and fresh outdoor locations. The house and gardens of the venue served as a perfectly whimsical backdrop for the early morning natural lighting of the shoot. Inspiration could be taken from this shoot for couples wishing to have any part of their wedding outdoors, amongst nature and set within ancient grounds and gardens. Bignor Park is a privately owned estate in West Sussex, UK, at the foot of the impressive South Downs. Tucked away in a rural location, the estate is majestic with an understated style, and a quirky elegant charm. The contrast of lilac from the dress with the natural lighting and greens of the outdoors allows for a fresh and inspiring gallery.
Consider Your Wedding Theme
The colour of your dress should complement the overall aesthetic of your theme, even if you’re going all-out cray-cray with your colour scheme. If you’re a coordinated gal and want to match everything to perfection then choose a colour or colours from your palette and aim to find a dress as close to that as possible. If you’re a more eclectic bride and love mis-match then choose a colour you feel fabulous in, but keep it on point with the tone of the wedding. For example, a pastel-coloured gown would be perfect for a romantic, garden-themed wedding, while a deep, jewel-toned dress might suit a more formal, winter celebration. Ensure that your chosen colour harmonises with your venue and décor. You might want to mix traditions further and have your bridal party in white instead!
Choose A Colour That Suits Your Skintone
Just like any outfit, the colour of your wedding dress should flatter your skin tone. Cool skin tones often look great in shades like blush, icy blue, or lavender, while warm skin tones are complemented by colours such as champagne, peach, or gold. If you’re unsure, try on dresses in different shades to see which colours enhance your natural glow. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when it comes to finding the right colour and if you’ve found a dress you love but aren’t sure about the colour then ask if it comes in any other shades.
Go Seasonal In Your Choice
You may want to consider the season and the seasonal flower options when it comes to choosing the colour of your wedding dress. For spring/summer pastel shades make the perfect choice. Soft pinks and pale blues or warming peach and yellow tones reflect the fresh energy of the season. For autumn, earthy, rich tones like burgundy or forest green are perfect and for winter, jewel or metallic tones are the perfect choice.
Consider Fabric and Textures
The fabric and textures used in your coloured wedding dress can change your look dramatically. For example, soft floaty tulle and ruffled details can create a soft and ethereal look. Heavy silks and sumptuous satin fabrics can create a more rich and regal vibe. There’s no right and wrong with this it’s all about personal preference and of course, the style of dress that you prefer for your wedding day. When trying on dresses, make sure to view them in different lighting conditions, both natural and artificial. This will give you a true sense of how the colour will look on your wedding day.
Trust Your Gut
When you find “the one,” you’ll likely feel an emotional connection to the dress, although this is not a given! Stay true to yourself, the most crucial element is how the dress makes you feel. If you feel confident, and beautiful in a coloured gown, then it’s most likely the right choice for you. Your gut feelings are often the best indicator that you’ve made the right choice.
Consider Ombre or Two Tone Options
If you don’t want to commit to a solid colour then a ombre or two-tone dress may be right for you. There are some beautiful ones out there! For a subtle approach, you could also opt for a dress with a coloured lining that peeks through layers of tulle or lace. This way, you can enjoy a pop of colour without overwhelming (yourself) and the overall look.
Choose Coloured Accessories
If you want to add colour but are worried about straying too far from tradition then consider choosing coloured accessories. This could be in the form of a detachable skirt, a two-tone or embellished cape or a coloured veil and matching shoes. You could also consider having a traditional coloured dress for your vows and then switching it up with a coloured outfit for the after-party!